I think everyone who is in my Facebook friend list, they might have seen my last night status saying that I would want to be born as a male. Yeah, I want to be a male if I were to be born next time after me death.
Why? Sometimes I feel unfair behalf of all of the ladies in the world. Why do I say so? Well, time flies, and everyone is now working. Even the ladies gone to work everyday, as same as the male. Here we could say that, not only males gone to work and look for money to survives his family, but ladies too.
So, it’s unfair right, when the lady came out from work, together with her husband. And being in the kitchen alone. When she asked her husband regarding that, the husband said about the tiring feeling he feels currently and that’s the reason why he cannot help her in the kitchen. It’s truly unfair, the lady too just came back from work, and might feels tired too. But she still continues doing what she needs to do and ignoring her own tiring.
Sometimes, I do feel that, male should not use the working time as the reasons to escape in helping his wife in the kitchen or doing house-works. Even though most of the works usually being done by lady, but man should also think that lady needs rest too. And nowadays, everything can be done by male and female. It’s either cooking or washing. It can be done by a male also. Then it’s now depending on the man himself. Whether he wants to help his wife or not. Or maybe he wants to help or being lazy to help.
Some men also having habits sort like lazy people. Let say the men is not working on Saturday and his wife is working on that particular days. So, instead of helping to clean up the house while his wife is working, he makes the house in mess, and letting his wife to clean it up all when his wife come back from work later. Should not man feels guilty over this things? Letting all things being handled by wife and not helping?
I guess, this is what I think when I want to be born as a male. I do sometimes wants to escape doing things like cleaning, washing and so. I know it’s ladies job, but world has changed. It’s normal when man is in the kitchen too.
One Comment on "Why I want to be Born as a Male?"
uuuuu… come explore the world i’m seeing. Living proof of a househusband is staying right next door to my hse. He’s handling everything. Cooking, housechores, picking the daughter from kindergarten and stuff you’ve mentioned what girls are doing.. :)
Don’t regret about being a woman. think of us as a better multi-tasker than men. Men can’t do that. They can’t focus in many areas at one time, but we do. :) I love being a woman. I love being able to look sophisticated at work, and a dedicated wife and loving mom(someday soon). I love the feeling of skirt cloths on my bare thigh. Guys can’t do that. Women nowadays can do anything and so much more.
As for the housechores, it’s really up to the couples to divide the works. The lady partner should voice out on what’s bugging her if she sense that the male partner is not doing his part at home. It’s more about communication. No more wording like ” Perempuan tugasnya hanya di dapur”. that’s bullshit..
We women are special. We’re complete. Male? Count their rib bone, they’re less to us by one..God gave them one ability to pujuk them men though.. A one level higher than us women on physical ability. That’s it…
Hahaha somehow I agreed with this. :P Thanks sis!