I have a friend here, who left me just because of my status. Yeah, I said to them I’m engaged. Since the day I stressed out about my status, he keeps away from me, doesn’t want to talk or see me. Well, for m it’s a good thing. Before this, he always want to be next to me. He wants my attention that I think I couldn’t give it to him.
I never thought that he will react like this. I honestly feels guilty and regret by telling him about my status. However, I do feel happy of the changing. At least, I won’t feel scared of his disturbance during classes.
Yeah, I felt so annoyed with him. He tried his best to be next or nearer to me. He will follow wherever I go except toilets. When sometimes I go and have my lunch at hospital, he must be somewhere around my perimeter. Also when I’m in practical room. At first, he will be somewhere far from me, or in another part of patient’s unit. But after he saw me, he will come nearer, and join us in our group’s patient’s unit. Which then make me feel so annoyed of him.
Some friends especially the males scared to come nearer to me to ask me few things about nursing because of him. One of them called Azlee always shows me the sign “pancung” which means that, he is scared to come nearer to me because he worries that the guys who likes me might “pancung” him.
Since the day he started to get away from me, everyone is asking why he keeps away from me as if something bad is happening to both of us. I simply will reply them, I got nothing to do with him. It’s up to him if he wants to get away from me. I don’t care. Because for me, a friend should accept the truth that I am no more single. For me, it’s wrong for me to hide the truth just for him. It’s better for me to tell everyone the real truth rather than I keep to myself. I honestly feel happy with my own status, and I would love to know that everyone could accept the fact that I have a special boyfriend, and I love him so much!
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If someone be-friends u because they have an intention, then the friendship is not sincere.
friendship that is based on insincerity is never good and lasting. Dont worry about him. There are many more friends out there that want to be your friend without a ‘hidden agenda’.
after all, him trying to court someone elses gf/fiancee/wife is a clear sign that he doesnt respect other people’s relationship, and that also shows that he is selfish. what more to say if he already has a gf/wife/fiancee… that would show he is unfaithful and also not to be trusted.
Hahahahaha I know sayanggggg…. I’m sick with that kind of friend. He should terima kenyataan yang I no more single. A friend should always be a friend even though you know your friend is belongs to someone else. :)
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Way to go Amiey! Honesty is the best policy. Screw him. By now u shd know he’s interested in you not as a friend, but something more. Stalking someone u fancy to the point of giving misplaced attention is a big turn-off. You’ve done the right thing. There r other people out there who deserves ur friendship more.
Hahahaha
Yeah, I now realized the good thing when I told him about this. I love what is happening now when he really take this seriously and going far from me. Rasa aman! :P
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Hello Amiey,
People at your age will definitely want to look for a life partner. A male who wants to get closer to a female will definitely wants something out of their friendship, such as love. Probably, he had that intention towards you at first. But when he knows that he will fail, he reacted negatively. But isn’t it good for your relationship with Cyril? At least you know his intention and believe me, having a third person in your life will makes things complicated. I hope there will be no 3-corner relationship between you, cyril and him. Take this positively. Why bother yourself with him when you have study to concentrate on? Forget about him and get on with your life. okay?
Bro, that will not happen. Not that I bongkak or what, but believe me, I look at men only for friend. Not more than that. I think I love Cyril so much, and I think no ones can replace him in my life.
Yeah, as what I mentioned to Coffee Girl’s comment, I now realized the good thing I told the guy about my status. And I love it when it goes that way. :)
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