I have few friends whom are getting married this year. Some of them are waiting for the big day not less than a month. For instance, Nadia and Kris. Congrats to both of them. Others like DeeLoner and her husband, Dan & Emelda. Congrats to all of them. My ex-classmate when I was in form 4 and 5 are getting married too.
Getting married? I think, most of my readers know about my age. I’m still too young to get married, but somehow, there are people who doesn’t understand about this thing. They keep asking me when to get married, and I hate those type of questions. Even my partner hates it.
Marriage is not an easy task in life. It involves everything, and it needs lots of sacrifices. So, for me, at this age, I don’t think much about marriage. I think, there were few times I discussed it with my partner, but then, we just had a small talk, not a serious talk.
Some of my friends, tend to get married easily. Once she has her own partner, she already prepare for marriage even though she just got to know the person not more than a month. I wonder how could that happens. Her age is a year older than me, and her partner hasn’t finish his studies here yet. If they’re serious, they might get married soon. And ermmmm…. God bless them and the marriage they’re planning to do. :)
For me, the earliest time for me to get married will be, a year after I graduated my studies. That’s the earliest. I want to get a job, and have own money, then I will think about marriage. My late age of marriage will be 28 years old. I don’t care to whom I will get married as long as the person loves me, and appreciates me. I don’t think much whether I will get married with the person I am with now. Whoever he is, I will love him and get married to him when I’m totally ready.
Some of my course mates are married, and they advised me not to get married too soon since I’m too young to bear the marriage life. It’s not easy for them to be away from their husbands and wives, and even their children while studying. Some even said, they feel regret of getting married too early. They enjoyed less single lives. That’s it. I no more single, but for me, I want to enjoy my life first before any heavy commitments.
I’m soooo not ready with the commitments ahead. I still want to enjoy my life to the fullest, even though some people said, you can still enjoy your life when you’re married, but I think that aren’t the same as the excitement and enjoyment you will have while you’re not married. :)
Anyways, Congratulations to DeeLoner (should I reveal your real name??) and her husband… Congratulations to Daniel and Emelda…. And also, congratulations to Nadia and Kris….. May God bless all of you… and may you guys have a wonderful and unforgettable moments of your big day :)
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Hey, my name was being mentioned here! :) .. and nope, I don’t see the necessity of revealing my real name. It’s not that I hate my name, but it’s easier like this. I blog like it’s nobody’s business, of using so called nick name, and I feel safer. :) so, nope. you don’t have too. And I doubt that you know my full name. hahah..
anyway, about marriage, I think this kind of thought comes in few stages of age in us. I remember being so wanting a marriage myself when I was only 21. I cried like there’s no tomorrow when my exbf kept telling me that marriage just hafta wait, even though we’ve been dating for 2 years.
then the urge disappeared when I was in 23. come DLoner 25 y.old, the urge started to come knocking again. This time it’s banging! asking to be heard. But the knocking ended when I’m 25 1/2y.o, no more perasaan nak kawin….Until a year after that, he popped the question, in his poyo-nak-mampus-hahahaha way..
the thing is, like you said, marriage- it’s not something that you can toy about. It needs full understanding towards each others’ need, and the ability to be transparent and honest with each other. And most importantly, trust. You don’t have to give full heart trust towards him, but enough to make you feel safe inside and know you’re in his mind as well..
good luck! thanks for the wishes! I can’t wait to walk the aisle and see my man waiting for me at the altar.. tee hee!
I never experienced that kind of urges. I’ve been only experiencing the feeling to have a bf. But not to get married, LOL
Anyways, I can feel that you’re happy and I think you really can’t wait to walk down the aisle and be waiting by you dearest hubby. Congrats again!! =)
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