It’s already May, and wow!! Time flies faster than I expected, and I can’t wait to enjoy my end of May trip. Yayy! However, I have been feeling unwell for two days. I vomited few times, and lost all my appetites. I found myself craving for Sarawak Laksa, and I am hoping that I could go to Laksa Shack later, and fill my craves with Sarawak Laksa they are serving there.
Anyways, this post reminds me of a story, where a lady got pregnant, but it belongs to other people instead of her boyfriend. The question is that, will the boyfriend willing to take the girl as the wife even when the girl is having a baby with other man?
What happened was, the girl was raped by other man while she was working in a factory. She was doing her works in a store, and a man suddenly came and raped her. She couldn’t do anything to avoid the man, her voice wasn’t heard by anybody. Her shouts were stopped by the man using the hand.
After the case, she went to see the police, and the man runaway, but the girl was pregnant. Her boyfriend knew about that, and he was in dilemma whether to take the girl as his wife, and take the baby as his child.
So, in a real life, if it happens to you, which way would you lead your life to? How would you stop your dilemma in choosing your own life. Will you take the girl as your wife together with the baby which is not yours?
Well, let us just share this things. It might happens to anybody around us. And it may helps them on deciding tough decision like this. If I were born to be a man, and face this kind of problem, I would just take both the girl and the baby into my life. After all, it’s accidentally happened. It’s not intentionally made by the girl. She was raped, and she might never want to get into this kind of trouble. S
So, why not? =)
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I guess its a pretty hard decision for both the guy and girl to make…but i would follow your decision and accept both the girl and the baby. however, the older generations might not even approved of this so…
Yep, the older generations will never bless the decision. :)
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I have a friend with almost similar case. Her baby was delivered and open for adoption. She feels regretted for the baby but if she were to given a second thought she would do the same as keeping the baby is a mental torture to her though it is unfair for the baby.
Huuhuhuhu Pity her. Somehow, giving the baby for its own good is better than keeping it especially when you have no stable work or money to raise the baby perfectly. :)
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She should have gone straight to do police report,and the police will send her to the hospital for medical check up and “wash up” the inside after taking the semen sample. Just so she won’t get pregnant..
At least she’s being protected by law, and save the trouble of the unwanted pregnancy..
I wouldn’t wanna imagine myself as her boyfriend, because the feeling sux.. What if you accepted her into life, and then when you and the girl want to have baby on your own, you realised that you’re impotent. the girl cannot have baby with you… You’ll end up hating the baby she had with the rapist….
Yeah, if you think it as her boyfriend, you will feel the sucks thing. Some guy wouldn’t mind to have the baby, but I’m sure almost all of the guys wouldn’t want the baby. Especially when she got raped.
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